Inviting Communities into the Conversations around Death and Honoring Life
In our American “death avoidant” culture we are quick to shy away from conversations around death. This has lead many of us to become fearful of death, uneducated in how to talk about death, and confused about how to show support to those who are dying, or grieving a loved ones death. Instead of grappling with the many ways death shows up in our lives, it becomes easy to put it in a closed box that we hide away. As a result, when those around us experience loss we often jump to pity, out of our own fear, and have a hard time accessing compassion. A big part of my work is about educating communities about death by; normalizing talking about it, encouraging people to share their wishes with loved ones, inviting people to examine the stories they have around death that strike fear, and helping them think through some practical steps to prepare for their own deaths. Together, I believe we can reframe how individuals and communities deal with death, and as a result, cultivate more compassion and love in our communities. Some communities are ready to talk about Death, in more obvious ways, and others are not. My job is never to force anything, but to respect the needs of the community and curate a workshop that best fits the needs of the culture.
“When your fear touches someone's pain, it becomes pity, when your love touches someone's pain, it becomes compassion.”
-Stephen Levine
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